That doesn't mean anything in my mind, I'm afraid. Absolutely beautiful. For My Friend – I wish I could think of the perfect words to help you feel better at this difficult time. A shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen whatever you need, I’m here. Are people allowed to feel that way about other people anymore? Call me whenever you want some help. I have faith in you. Not in the therapist sense, not in the let’s-talk-about-our-crap-boyfriends-over-martinis sense, but the real sense: I love you enough to make room for your pain in my heart and handle it like my own. «There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate.» Linda Grayson. I'm here for you. You’re a generally good person and I enjoy your company and I know you have to vent right now, so I’ll listen; I’ll even bring the beers if you want. Hurt translates pretty well. You may unsubscribe at any time. Filter ( 71) ... Don't move, I'm on my way with "Singing in the rain", two spoons and a carton of chocolate ice cream. within reach. Whatever you need, I’m here. Here’s a little extra sunshine – in case you need it. on hand. They probably won’t go away but maybe they’ll get smaller and a little easier to deal with, and that’s still something. Pour your tears into me, wet my shirt sleeves and dry your eyes with my hair. ” Adverb Within this content, context, or thing. I’m someone. I’m Cheering for You! One of the best pieces I’ve ever read on thought catalog. Or better than my own, because my own usually ends up stuffed into a back corner of my brain and left there to ferment into a viscous, sour liquor.”. Reblogged this on The Diary of a Doormat and commented: I know what it’s like to feel silenced, shut down, wounded. You don’t have to do it alone. I’m here for you honestly, sometimes painfully so. Thank you, thank you. There’s a part of friendship that’s more than camaraderie and good feelings, more than having someone to hang out with all the time and bullshit with on lazy Saturday mornings. […] http://thoughtcatalog.com/2012/im-here-for-you/ Like this:LikeBe the first to like this. Wow. – What can I say, except I’m thinking of you and I wish you didn’t have to go through all this. I’m here for you when you’re giving up, when you’re exhausted. Sometimes it means something, sometimes it doesn’t. Absolutely beautiful. You floored me and I have absolutely no advice, nowhere to go from here. So poignant. To feel like there’s no one who really understands, or cares, or will even make the genuine effort; to feel like even talking about it is nothing but a pointless stirring of air. But I can't really guess at what sort of thing you're trying to replace it by. I’m here for you because I am that person, and because you are that person for me. Sometimes the people who say it might as well be commenting on the weather, the brunch they just came home from. Whatever you need, I’m here for you. I may not give you any advice at all — sometimes there just isn’t any, just try what sucks the least and hope for the best — but I’m listening. «There's nothing wrong with you. Adjective Denotes being at or within a specified space or place. You’ve been through a lot lately. Learn about us. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. There are people all over the place, we’re always stuck in this incredible anthill, but when we find the one person we can actually trust and let our guard down with we cleave to them like dust to sweat. You’re a generally good person and I enjoy your company and I know you have to vent right now, so I’ll listen; I’ll even bring the beers if … within. Task me. You can talk to me about anything you want; your fears and apprehensions, the things you’re afraid to acknowledge let alone say out loud. And when I say I’m here for you, it’s because I need you too — your existence makes me lighter; your presence helps tease out the mess of the world. What is the sincerest way of saying I'm here to help? I’m offering, but I hope you don’t actually take me up on it.”. I’ve been trying to say this for so long. The part marked by understanding, protection, sacrifice. I’m here for you. To everyone who knows about this space because I told you about this. I Care About You. I needed this. Genuine friendship is a rare thing and that’s why I want to tell you I’m here for you. Is that weird? Just call. I am floored. For some things, there just are no perfect words. I usually say “What can I do?” Open eyes, open voice. The words come out but they don’t resonate, emptied of their meaning, just tiny bare word packages floating across a synapse. I hope that knowing how much I care and how much I value you will lighten your burden at least a little. ... on-the-spot. I don't know what it means for a company name to say "I am here". Hope that helps.” Other times, “I’m here for you” means “I’m here for you but I’d rather not be, it’s just what you’re supposed to say in these situations so I don’t know. Sometimes, when people say “I’m here for you,” they mean “I’m here for a while, for an hour or an evening. And sometimes the people who truly mean it never say the words at all. Beautiful. Not in the therapist sense, not in the let’s-talk-about-our-crap-boyfriends-over-martinis sense, but the real sense: I love you enough to make room for your pain in my heart and handle it like my own. present. For My Friend – I wish I could think of the perfect words to help you feel better at this difficult time. Beautiful (and just what probably a lot of people will say), and very relevant to me right now. We’re supposed to be so evolved, so independent and self-serving, that sometimes we forget what it’s like — and that it’s okay — to need someone to love us, take care of us, take on our emotional weight. You know those situations when you’re with lots of people, and you’re all trying to decide what to do this evening, and everyone has different ideas. Learn more about working with Thought Catalog. I may not have firsthand experience with the exact thing you’re going through, but I know what it means to hurt. Reblogged this on A Day In The Life and commented: Such a beautiful and accurate description of what friendship is supposed to be like. You could say something like: “I’m in the mood for bowling.” You’re explaining what you want to do but without too much pressure. Yes, yes, yes. Sometimes, when people say “I’m here for you,” they mean “I’m here for a while, for an hour or an evening. The strong part. Four words and a thousand different interpretations. I’m offering all the support one heart can – because I care about you. More from Health.com:10 No-cost strategies to fight depression […]. 22 Things Men Say When You First Start Dating Them (And What They Really Mean), To My Future Love: Find Me When You’re Ready, Here’s Why Women Are the Fastest Growing Population of Homeless Vets, Online Dating Translations: What Guys And Girls Are Actually Saying In Their Profiles, This Is What I Really Mean When I Say, ‘I’m Fine’, How To Tell If An INFJ Likes You (As Told By 32 INFJs), http://thoughtcatalog.com/2012/im-here-for-you/. Reblogged this on snapshotdaze and commented: herein. in view of this. I’m here for you, put it on my shoulders. “Summer is here and a bit more fun would be welcome on the streets of Kerry towns. I mean it differently. Bookmark the permalink. Or better than my own, because my own usually ends up stuffed into a back corner of my brain and left there to ferment into a viscous, sour liquor. Thank you for writing this! For some things, there just are no perfect words. Dedicated to your stories and ideas. What NOT to say: I think your depression is a way of punishing us. All I can do is sit here with you and absorb. I’ll listen to your words or your silence, whichever you give me. Alert and ready to dive in. Mila you are one of the only reasons I sit and click through pages of “List of _____ In Your Twenties” bullshit. Yes. Love love love this. This may be one of the hardest changes you’ll ever make in your life. @Braveyard: Okay, I now understand that you are trying to replace the phrase 'say "I am here"' in your quotation. The part that would move your body in front of theirs to take a bullet without a blink or second thought. Different. Four words and a thousand different interpretations. The selfless, human part. on board. I hope that knowing how much I care and how much I value you will lighten your burden at least a little. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Mila you are my favourite writer on here. Genuinely. Tissues? But I probably won’t stay the night.”, Sometimes, when people say “I’m here for you” they mean “I don’t know what else to say to your sad story. Let me explain. in this. Just looking for a point in the right direction. This is beautiful. One, two, three, four, kick your troubles out the door! I may not give the best advice, or even moderately good advice, but I’m here for you. But when I say I’m here for you, I mean it.

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